T, I agree totally w/uR. You are doing wonderful. You are right where you should be at this time. You did a great job of listening and I do believe her friend struck a nerve w/her comment. It gave your w something to think about.
Dig deeper for patience and give her plenty of space. The job is giving her plenty of ego boosters and admiration for now. It's helping her and she doesn't even know it.
So, what are your plans for the week and long weekend coming up?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
