BRNR, I'm going to turn the tables and ask you point blank...what do you want? If you want to remain status quo, then do nothing...but what are you going to do about your financial aspects?
You need to do something about money, i.e., child support, etc. That is the main key here for now...survival. Many on the board and in the real world didn't want divorces, but because of the financial situation, they had to go through w/the divorce. How did that pan out w/the MLCER and/or WAW? Well, some eventually got back together and others went on their merry way to a better life w/o their spouses in tow.
If you are not ready to move forward, then sit quietly and see if he raises the issue w/you...but remember...you need financial assistance from him.
If you aren't sure what to do...sit quietly and the answers will be revealed very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
