T, you are inspiring. I feel panicky sometimes that my H will want to come home and I'll forget my worth or not know how to lovingly not say yes. In my head I know this or that that I'd need to see to know he's really willing to change, but I worry that I'll let those needs go. Anyway, if it ever comes about, your words will be in my head giving me strength.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.