Too be honest, to hear W talk now about how horrible the R is...I feel like "wait a minute, are we talking about the same R?"
I hear you brother, it's tough to listen to all the spewing. You just want to drag out the photo albums and remind them that they actually enjoyed most of the M despite their recent rewriting of history. But of course they've totally bought into the lies they're telling themselves, so they are only going to react with anger if we try to tell them otherwise. So we zip our lips and hope that someday their fog clears and they remember.
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I can tell you that she is done D.O.N.E. and says nothing I do will ever get her love back.
Keep in mind that while she does believe that right NOW, that nearly every reconciled WAS has said that exact same thing at some point. It's script and no matter how sure she sounds she might still change her mind somewhere down the road.
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The good news? As long as I dont bring up the R, and or push her to see if theres a chance to come back, I can stay in the home until I get my crapp together.
That's great, use the time to show her your 180's and do remember that "dont bring up the R" part and take it to heart! Remove all pressure from her! Good luck!
