AS I dont want you to think that I am not listening to YOU . I have been doing all of the things that you and the others have told me, and following it in DR. I listen, and listen, and listen...and validate the W all the time. But I get baited in sometimes, and I need to do better at not getting defensive. Especially when she talks about intimate things...it just baits me right in. How can you going hot to trot to "you completely disgust me" practically overnight? As a man, I guess I am just not wired to understand that.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
. I have been doing all of the things that you and the others have told me, and following it in DR. I listen, and listen, and listen...and validate the W all the time. But I get baited in sometimes, and I need to do better at not getting defensive. Especially when she talks about intimate things...it just baits me right in. How can you going hot to trot to "you completely disgust me" practically overnight? As a man, I guess I am just not wired to understand that.
