AS...Yeah, it didnt go horrible, but it didnt go well either.
I was never controlling in the R. We split the duties pretty much 50/50. Too be honest, to hear W talk now about how horrible the R is...I feel like "wait a minute, are we talking about the same R?"
I can tell you that she is done D.O.N.E. and says nothing I do will ever get her love back.
The good news? As long as I dont bring up the R, and or push her to see if theres a chance to come back, I can stay in the home until I get my crapp together.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013