AS...Yeah, it didnt go horrible, but it didnt go well either.

I was never controlling in the R. We split the duties pretty much 50/50. Too be honest, to hear W talk now about how horrible the R is...I feel like "wait a minute, are we talking about the same R?"

I can tell you that she is done D.O.N.E. and says nothing I do will ever get her love back.

The good news? As long as I dont bring up the R, and or push her to see if theres a chance to come back, I can stay in the home until I get my crapp together.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013