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What does one do in this situation? Acquiesce? Just look after one's self?


Definitely look out for your interests, don't be unreasonable yourself but also don't settle for unreasonable requests from your W.

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I guess most Ms that hit this phase of the D procedure don't recover, right?


I don't think there are any hard numbers on this, my gut feel from reading stuff over the last year is that the chances of R do go down after D, but I suspect much of that is because the LBS moves on after D. People do sometimes R after D though, so nothing is a given.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57