It is good that you had a friend with you to help support you when you got served. It probably also helped that you already knew they were coming, and approximately when. It wasn't a surprise.
As with anything pertaining to the D particulars, do try to think of this as strictly a business transaction. Things about details such as dates and times are good to note. Just try to think of them as strictly facts of note, rather than having meaning.
In the mean time, keep working on yourself and moving forward in positive ways. This is not the end, just another process that may or may not end in D.
