Trying to stay in it, keeps getting harder. #3

[labug]

You're afraid and that's understandable. If you tell him and he starts ranting, end the conversation. Tell him you will talk when he can speak to you in a more respectful way. Don't engage. Set your boundary. "When you speak to me in that tone of voice I feel unsafe. We can talk when you can speak to me in a respectful way." Then stick to it. The other person usually won't believe your boundary the first time and will continue to try and break it. Be strong.

I'll be thinking of you today.