Originally Posted By: Intact

I've met someone I really like. Have to stress here that I've done nothing about it but its seriously given me something to think about.

The woman is younger than me - and she's actually working abroad for 6 weeks - leaving today. I'm hoping this will give me time to get my head and thoughts straight.


I dated (sort of still am) a younger woman so let me just throw this out there for you to think about- now I have TWO sitches instead of ONE wink At first everything was beyond fantastic, we got along great and I was experiencing first-hand all those puppy love feelings we talk about here when our spouses get into an EA or PA. My thoughts were constantly "WOW, I've never felt THIS with W, this is something unique and different, maybe true looooove!" Despite those feelings I did manage to reign myself in and take it slow. A couple of months later I'm getting 10x the drama from this new R then I've had dealing with separation and my upcoming divorce. Now instead of feeling puppy love I'm thinking "how in the world did I get into this mess?" and "do I really need this right now with so much other stuff going on?" I'm not telling you not to proceed, I'm just saying take it slooooow. I took it slow but not slow enough. I should have taken it slooooow or maybe even sloooooooooooooow smile

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57