Hi In_it! Hope everything goes well with the dr appointment. I hope you have been taking good care of yourself. That's what's most important for you and those wonderful little 'pollywogs'!
I just wonder, why keep all this uncertainty and fears inside? IMHO you should let your H know about it. Get it out there, if that's what you feel you must do. I bet you'll feel better, regardless of what H says or does. This is the situation, how H decides to respond is HIS problem. You've got enough to worry about already without having to concern yourself with how he's feeling.
Good luck and let us know how it goes with the dr.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13