I don't have too much advice but if your H is renting a room from someone and can't really have the DD's there, you have other options. Perhaps you can say to him, "I know you can't have the girls to your house but in order to rebuild your r with them, you need more time together. Are you interested in coming over 1 or 2 nights a week to make dinner for them. You can have the house with them and I will use the time to get some things done that I need to do?"
As for fb, there is an option to hide someone as opposed to defriending them. This way, you don't see what they are doing (unless they comment directly on your post) but they don't know you have hidden them.
It sounds like you are trying to take responsibility for every little thing and you can't do that. You can encourage your girls to reach out to their dad, and you can encourage your H to spend more time with them. That is all, you cannot fix this and the courts definitely will not fix it.
Be strong and don't make any rash decisions at your next MC appt. Remember, men do not communicate or show emotion the same way we do and we tend to let that cloud our thinking and feel that they aren't "doing enough" when for them, they are doing a lot.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
