If I remember correctly AS said on somebody's thread when he or she wanted to write a letter that he hasn't read a single story here where it did any good.
Some of you have better memories regarding what I've said than I do You are quite right, that was me. I've read tons of sitches on here, even though I joined last year I've dug through the archives and read a lot of older sitches as well. Lots of letters have been sent and more often than not the WAS doesn't even acknowledge receiving it.
So Grizz, like the others have said, send it if it if you need to for YOU, but don't have any expectations. My email to W didn't change anything in my sitch, but it did make ME feel better because I felt like I said what I needed to say and there was no need to keep bringing it up in the future. It made it easier for me to let go of that desire to keep reminding W the door was still open.