You can be done anytime you want, but I don't think you're quite done.
I have questions (you knew I would) What was barfy about his toast? Was he acting drunk, slurring words? The part you quoted didn't sound so bad.
You mentioned his Mother is difficult, is this how he reacts to her, needing a drink? What are his problems with his mother? What do you think of his mother?
About his texting OW that you mentioned in previous post-did he tell D that's who he was texting?
I feel your pain. It does get better.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
