The House is in both our names...as is the health insurance, and everything else. I think I am going to approach W and explain while I understand what she wants, and agree with her...that we need to slow down. Offer her a form of separation with me staying in the home until A) we can sell it and split any profit from the sale (I will not accept either continuing to owe or "breaking even") or I can get on my feet with a cushion of savings.
Thoughts?
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013