My D is finalised but we are still immersed in the financial settlement.
The D actually brought a sense of relief, even though i had been dreading it. The anticipation was over, it was done, and even XH immediately became nicer to me.
Now the haggling over significant $$$ is ongoing and it's even worse than the D process. I can't see how to DB through this. We are adversaries, pure and simple.
