Help & Advice Needed Please (Thread 3)

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JOURNAL

So clearly I have a lot to think about... Been thinking of the woman I've met a great deal - and the first time since my sitch began I can honestly say I feel truly detached from my W - and its helping me to see things much more clearly.

I realise I have to be careful here and not fall into the "love" trap my Wife did with OM - this is why I think the 6 weeks I have now are important.

Thinking somewhat clearly about my sitch and my W... I never once felt that an affair would be a deal breaker for me. What may be, and it is something I still feel anger towards was the fact that she wasn't there for me in any way when my Dad passed - not even a singly text message. I have to work out if I can ever get past this if we were to R.

The truth is, I feel good. I know I've improved myself and I will continue to do so but for the first time in months my thoughts aren't with my W - my thoughts are very much of my own future and how I want to shape that.