Excellent job, cbtdad. You've lovingly set a boundary that you need to have in place to protect yourself. And you seem to have made progress with detaching, i.e. you're not letting her actions or mood affect your PMA or distract you from the good work you're doing to rediscover the old cbtdad and the goals and dreams that he once had, and is now getting back on course to achieving for himself.

Hmm...trying to think of a good tagline... You've set your pieces in place, now see the game through to earn the W. Ahh, double-meaning, see what I did there? smile


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13