So does anyone have any comments about what to do or not to do for staying dark a.k.a. Gray or any other shade of the same When it is obvious that the ex is involved in a relationship


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12