I have been working on GAL. Trying very hard detaching but it seems to be so hard for me. He has actually been civil and has come to the house several times and seemed almost human. Just picking up his mail and using the computer. He has mentioned the D word but like it is somewhere down the line if that makes sense. Wants to get his own place but financially it's just not possible right now. But yet it's kinda weird because a few times he has been here it was almost "normal" if there is such a thing is this awful new reality. Then all of a sudden it is like a switch flips somewhere in his brain and he can't get out of here fast enough. It is like I can almost actually see it switch. Has anyone ever seen this happen and what exactly is it? I am just so confused right now.


Me~46 H~48 M~28 yrs. D-25. S-20