Why does he keep telling me he didn't leave for OW? When he's been with the OW after he decided he didn't want to be married. In his eyes we were separated. Didn't introduce her to everyone til 3 months after final divorces although he's been with her as EA since before D accident. I know hes been with her pre divorce. I don't understand. You can leave a marriage cause you aren't happy but your not leaving for OW. In his mind he thinks it was so over a long time ago therefore he didn't actually leave me for her. What? How does that work?

I know it doesn't matter now. But why does he always throw that back at me?


M: 49 H: 49
S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago)
M: 21yrs
BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months)
D: 3/11/11
Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery
X: engaged w/OW