Got a message from the mediator, w spoke with her. She is wanting to return. I asked if my w gave a reason why she left last time , w said "it was too overwhelming". In frustration I said "does she it was easy for me." Now I think about her statement "it was too overwhelming" and I go back to all the this I have read, and matches the self absorbed person that she is. Not even considering one ounce of how it is affecting me. She also wants some documents from me before we go forward. I want say I have nothing of hers because she told me to throw everything away.