Hey BD, The litigation is as nasty as it can be. My L and I are taking the high road. He says the courts are more favourable on those that do especially when trying to deal with custody and coparenting. They are making fools of themselves in not looking out for their best intersts of the children and only self serving It is a loooong and expensive path. So bizarre, she sends me an email telling me off and telling me what to do and then calls me a bully in the same email. She cc'd her lawyer on it. Still am lost on the anger in her....she is getting what she wants, a D. For someone that wanted a quick, easy D she sure does not act like it. I am going out with my lady friend again tonight. Was with her all last evening for dinner etc....kids are away so it's nice to have the company. She is expressing feelings for me. We talked about that and she gets where I am at with all this and says she will take the time and let me deal with matters over the next several months. She is attracted to the dad and person I am she says. She is outstandingly beautiful and much younger....I don't get it. she has more money than I, makes more too. wtf? Am I too hard on myself?
How are you BD et al?
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
