G, the thing of it is this. It didnt really matter that some of us got to say a lot of that stuff because they werent ready to hear it.

And sometimes when it is said, to them it seems that you arent hearing them.

But do what you feel is right for you. Being honest is never a bad thing.

As long as your head is in the right mindset and you understand that there is the possibility that this angers her.

Just trying to have your back, sweetie. smile