Bea, It's human nature to want what you can't have and yet, doesn't want to let you go or share you w/anyone else. I've seen this a number of times and you are now a challenge to him.
Stay strong and positive. You are a very strong woman and will rise above this latest BS.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.