Thanks for the comments - I agree with all that both of you have said. They are nuts.

As for responding to any emails - when hell freezes over and probably not then. I have said all I want to say, and there is no point adding anything. If he didn't understand a simple email there would be no mileage is any further exposition.

For reasons I do not understand he now appears to want me in his life, but without admitting it, and while continuing to have OW2. None of this is going to happen. I don't even like him any more.