Yep. That's why I said let's talk about it later in week. Oh and it won't be me bringing it up. I'm gonna chalk it up to the meds and continue my course.
I will not just be the fallback plan. She has some serious work she needs to do for herself. Just like I need to focus on my journey.
If she wanted "space" for a month and there was no OM in picture I could probably be around her and just not talk about R stuff. We could be friendly coworkers.
But as long as I think OM is involved I need to cutoff contact except for son.
Just seems how I feel right now


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it