A plan of action...vet advice needed

[SFC_Swede]

As I see it, in the next 24 to 48 hours I have two options.

Option A) Stay LRT and say nothing. I have to be honest with you all, I dont think the LRT is working at all. Yes, I realize it has only been a short time period to even begin to work, but with the speed and methodical distancing from the R in all ways the W is going...I think it is too late to stop W from filing for D by simply ignoring the elephant in the room, no matter how much space I give her.

Option B) Present her with a list of talking points. Of which, I agree that our R is beyond repair at this time, but we need to slow things way down. That with my investments in the house and property I do not think its fair that I am being forced out into a hovel, that I can not afford, and must leave everything behind. That we can continue to co-habitate in separate, but equal quarters. We continue to share in the household responsibilities, paying of the bills, ect...but will for all intents and purposes be separated. No physical contact, and will allow W to initiate any verbal communication.