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[prometheus]

This stuff is really hard. My wife has taken her wedding ring off. I am not coping with that very well. Eventually i could not stop myself from asking her why she had taken her ring off. Apart from "I thought that would have been obvious", i got no reason by way of an answer.

Later on in the day my wife volunteered the information that she had taken the ring off as a statement to show that she was serious about us not being married any longer. She has tried telling me and it does not seem to be getting through so this is why she took her ring off. She does not understand why i am so stubborn, why i won't separate, why it is such a big deal to me.

She also said that it will be better for the children's mental health if i go because it is better that they live with one happy parent rather than two unhappy ones. I found this all pretty hard to take and i don't know what to do.