Twink, I feel as if he enjoyed his MLC so much that he is doing it all over again. He is currently in denial, anger and Replay all over again, It is real deja vue, except for me this time without feeling! I am not hurting and since we are divorced and financially settled there is nothing he can threaten me with.
So this time I am withdrawing myself from the fray at the outset. Another seven years of this would be more than any person needs to take! Life is good. I am sad he can't get through his crisis, but they really have to want to change, and he doesn't see or feel the need. As far as he is concerned he is right and we are all in error.
Snodderly has said we aren't free of the MLCer until one of us is pushing up the daisies, and as with most things, I feel that she is right here.
But the thing is it no longer really hurts. Sad, yes, hurt, no and not surprised either.