SFC, I would not leave. Seriously. This may or may not go against others' advice, but... Only a monster would tell a disabled vet to go make himself essentially homeless just so her D will be easy. But, yeah, I would throw some ideas of what you're thinking about saying out here for folks to chew on and offer suggestions.


Me: 36
Ex-H: 36
Met/friends 9/2000
Fling 5/2002-8/2002
R: 2/2005
M: 8/2/2008
Ex-H online A: 11/2009 (discovered)
Ex-H filed 8/1/2014
D final 10/2015

DS: 19 (mine)
DD: 7 (with Ex-H)
DD: 2 (mine)