I just wanted to stop by and say I wish everyone the best!

I haven't been here in awhile but I made some good friends since first discovering this site in approx. late 2005????

You can read my locked threads to brush up if some of you want.

In 11 days, I will be moving from AZ back to my home state of IL.

I am super excited and looking forward to it...have many friends there as well as a special someone.

My marriage ended up not working out as the ex did not want to work it out. Is he still with OW--I have no clue as he never goes anywhere and my son and I never see him on his cell phone. Unfortunately, he lives here in my son's house and has his own room. I live here in my own room. We are cordial but never stay in the same room at the same time.

Now that I look back, I have no feelings for him whatsoever, and in all honesty, he held me back a lot!!! To this day, he assumes no responsibility and does not show any interest in doing so, esp. when it comes to the kids. He still does not have a job and he is not looking for one either.

My kids are doing well...all of them. Not sure when I will see them, hopefully within the next year.

I am very happy, have moved on, and my past seems like such a blur now.

I look forward to the future and whatever is in store, I accept it.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19