P4L, that's a knightly post.

I wager that your kids will be ok. At least in my situation my impression is that my kids (about the age of yours) have adapted to the separation situation after a year better than I have.

I51 XW51
T30 M18 D11/11 S9
2/12 ILYBINILWY
3/12 I left home
4/12 PA
9/12 XW left home and moved in with OM
4/13 I moved back to home
6/14 Big D