Curiously enough I think he is so entitled in his thinking that he doesn't even consider whether it is rude, and if others find it so, tough on them. So he doesn't get it is rude, and doesn't care if it is.
I think I will get a very angry email for daring to criticise him, for interfering in his life,and for him it will be 'proof' that I can't cope with him having relationships with other women. Curiously enough I never realised when I was growing up that this was a necessary life skill for a person to learn!!
I can assure you that my xh will not see this as polite!
