Bea, I think you said what you needed to say in a very polite and to the point manner. It will be interesting to see if he responds back, which I think he will just to keep the communication going. I have two thoughts: 1)he doesn't get it in the way of dropping in w/her rude; or 2)he does and is still bound and determined to shove that woman down the throats of everyone that he comes in contact with. It'll be interesting to hear how he responds back to you, i.e., it might not be today, but he most definitely will. He can't pass up what he thinks is a challenge.
I'm of the same frame of mind, except I would say "not if he laid golden eggs". They are just clueless.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
