Bea, my friend, just when you think you got it all figured out, in steps jello brain - LOL!

You do what is best for you and as your children are grown, they can, too.

I dont think it is possible to figure them out. We can try, but, unless have gone nutty, too, it is impossible.

I think he is still unhappy and wondering why. So, let's try something else.

You keep being wonderful you, B.

Leave him to his jello brain. wink