Oh sorry, if I may have misled you on a few things. She is in full throttle for the divorce now and wants this to be done before she leaves for CA.
She previously wanted to buy me out of the house, but now that her position has been delimitated she is "confused" on whether she can still afford to buy me out of the house. As she was explaining to me a few days ago, that she wants to keep “her” house, but if she goes to California the rent is so high she would only be able to get a postage stamp apartment. During her conversation (very much one sided) where she was more brainstorming how she could keep her house. She tossed out a few thing like renting it to someone (I made it clear that I would not be her renter) to maybe we should refinance and I could live in it while she was in CA. As you know we can’t really make this stuff up.
I’m honestly surprised that she even let me know that her job was eliminated. She called me out of the blue with a pretense discussion about our boat and scheduling who would get it during which weeks until it was sold.
I’m not sure what goes through her mind. Before she found out about the job, I truly think that she thought once the divorce is over, she’d come back to the house and everything would be just like it was before, except I would be gone.
I had a meeting with my lawyer about a week ago and as far as he knows she still has not provided her financial affidavit. While we were on the phone she asked me if the mediation session had been scheduled?? I didn’t say anything and she then tosses out she may need to talk to her lawyer.
She’s so far gone I don’t even know what to say anymore.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...
