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[cbtdad]

I need some advice! Mach, Urworthy, Accuray, or anyone else who knows my sitch lately.
W sent me following texts tonight:

W: There is a big deal horse show with a grand prix tomorrow

Me: ok?

W: I thought since that's kinda close to y'all you and son might like to go

W: Meet me there

Me: When is this show?

W: Tomorrow

Me: What time?

W: Gate opens at 4

Me: K. should you be out so soon?

W: ok. it was just an idea
W: out like sleep?

Me: Being out so soon. Like being going somewhere the next day after surgery

W: oh, just cant drive
W: And I have a ride
W: but if im not feeling great I wont go

Me: K. Lets chat tomorrow

W: Night. Just thought it might be fun for you to see how much son likes these things and I can explain whats going on so you can get it




Obviously, I have been talking about detaching more and distancing myself and then she hits me with this. Thing is, this would be a 180 since I didn't show interest in her horse world and have done so over last five months.
Just not sure which way to go here. I do think I will be fine because we don't get into any relationship talk when son is around. But this is the opposite of distancing. The fact that she is inviting me to one of these is very interesting.
Having said that, she had breast surgery today and im sure has been on some drugs. LOL
But wise man did tell me to pay attention the next couple days while she is on these pain medications because it might knock her guard down and give you a sense of her real emotions
I am confused lets say that