Hi guys. I too struggled with the whole Alpha Male thing.
Was I loosing my W because I wasn't being alpha enough? I even read books on the subject.
Here's the thing. An alpha male is confident in just being himself. He doesn't go around doing alpha things, (if there's even such a thing) or worry about if he is or isn't being alpha enough.
Just be yourself, or better still, your new improved self, and be confident and strong about it.
And no walking around on eggshells, Ok? I think this is the most non-alpha thing we can do.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl