I totally get the difficulty with staying detached...they are "here", I want to attach, try to capitalize on any forward movement...and to show the kids that things are maybe okay...then...varooooom! They are "gone" again back to whatever stage they need to play in again...lol.
I just try to think of it as a dance....
I like hearing about H being "aware" of his issues and trying to work on them...W does the same, but it's the ol' two steps forward, one step back routine.
Guess we just have to back up the truck and get a farmer's load of patience right now...
Hang in there....! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
