I wanted to stop by to say hello and also say a few things...
First of all, I know it may feel like it, but you are not all alone. There are many wonderful people here to listen to you and support you. MLC can be very overwhelming - please don't feel like you have to face it alone.
The other thing is that you shouldn't be so hard on yourself and and see yourself as a "failure". And while we are all imperfect as people and as spouses, we can't shoulder the blame for our spouses' choices.
If your H is really in MLC, there is no fixing the R till he fixes himself - and that couid take years, if ever.
Instead of worrying about fixing the R, focus on bettering yourself. Not for your H or in the hopes that he'll return, but for you. Work on being the best you can be.
Keep us posted as to how you are doing/feeling
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
