I think you handled that conversation really really well. I think you're doing exactly the right thing to say "quit it," "stop saying that" when he accuses you of planning to screw him by getting pregnant. Refuse to listen to that, and continue acting with as much dignity and grace as you can. Let the courts handle the amount of child support.
I have heard of a woman whose H left, and he does move everytime she finds him, and quits jobs before she can get at the back child support he owes. Leave the haggling to the lawyers, don't even answer H's rude questions.
Be a broken record. I did not plan this. I am not trying to cheat you. I am going to do the best I can for our children. rinse, repeat.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
