" BUT, I now too see how he can be frustrated with me too, I was kind of delaying the petty cash hand over (because I wanted to discuss it first) I knew this morning that he was fit to be tied about money (this could have alivieated the sitch). "
No "buts" about it. We all have stress in our lives and deal with them in varying degrees. However, WE CHOOSE how to respond to that stress.
I've seen people struggling with cancer. Life and death. There's no bigger stress than realizing that you might be dying. And they deal with it with a positive attitude.
"His "hurry" was accurate based on timing and I do know and agree that he is overwhelmed,"
So what? Not your problem if HE CHOOSES to work like that.
"I said meltdown because of his reaction, but I knew it."
And he corrected you saying that it wasn't a meltdown. That he was just overwhelmed. His definition of a meltdown is different than yours. You have to respect HIS interpretation of it if that's how he's feeling. If he says he didn't have a meltdown, then he didn't. But you argue that he is. YOU can't keep telling him how he feels or why he's feeling the way he is. Just let it go.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
