I thought the conversation was going to be only about your S. How did it veer to your W and her coming home, etc? Do you think it might have been better to say, "I'm only prepared to talk about S today. I don't want to get sidetracked from this important issue."
She veered it. She always does. One of the 1st things I was 2x4'd with here was don't take the conversation that way and I've been pretty good about that. My goal when she has visited has been to cook a nice meal, enjoy each others company, be a source of safety to her. Once she turns the conversation to R I start to mess up. It would have been good to say the words you suggested. Once I get off track it's hard to get back on.
MrBond I'm not pushing C, she's insisting on a 'referee'. I am interested in C's opinion on our interactions, though.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.
