60 days is a bit quick. I'm glad I get a year, but I might not think the same way in 3, 6 or 12 months. I think I will but I also thought I'd never be in this position!!!
I think you're just processing everything and all new turns might lead to different feelings. Some temporary and some more growth and permanent. I wouldn't think too much into it, but I think it's ok what you expressed. This tells her more that you are not mad at her wanting a divorce meaning you are supporting her happiness and yours as well. All that is positive.
Focus on improving yourself so that when all is said and done D final or R you are the best you can be. The more you improve yourself the more you feel better, stronger, self confident which can only make you more desirable by your wife. If it doesn't, you'd leave the relationship knowing you've done everything you committed to do and you'll be a better you.
Stay strong. Trying
Thanks.
My goal now is to create the absolute best life I can with me and my D's. About a month ago I realized that I have to stop waiting around for her so the family can be "okay." I need to lead my family to be okay, and she is welcome to join us if she wants.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
