HI All Alone, it would be good to know a bit more about why you think your H is in MLC etc. That way some of the vets on her can help you out a little more. So maybe some info on your background, what you are doing for yourself, how you have handled things up to now.

Selling the house is not necessarily the end of the road. It may seem it, but from what I have read sometimes its not until that happens that the MLCer starts to see what they are missing.

I am not speaking from experience, I have all of this still to come and face myself. But detaching is the key. I'm getting there, and it does help get through the craziness.

Keep posting and you will soon get off of moderation.Take care of yourself.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.