Ahhhh, I get it! In our MC session, this was essentially what we were told. I need to shut up and not bail her out by rephrasing the question or helping her answer, and she needs to actually answer and not just avoid conflict.

I am not going to say anything at this time, unless it is put so in my face that I feel compelled to (what this would be, I don't know, but if we were on another date night and she was looking at his pics in front of me, I think I would now say something).

I have to fly out early Monday for business and won't be back until Thursday, a couple hours before MC, so my goal is to have a great weekend, avoid this issue and the anxiety from it by avoiding FB, and be a husband any woman would be a fool to leave!

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"