So obviously when she says these things to you.... you get extremely frustrated.. that's why you are considering backing off again? going back to no contact? are you afraid you may lose what trust you have built up with her? I know your not doing it to punish her... that it's for you... just hate to throw away any progress you have made with her. But I do agree.. she is still very early in this.. like my W... if she is in a MLC then it's almost way to early for her to becoming out of it .. protecting yourself is still the key here.. and if your not detached enough then maybe try going dimmer... but not not dark...
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
