Hi..LL I am reading that youa re still piondering the pa or ea that your h may or may not have had..and while I am not authority at it..yet you know what I believed for a long long time..my h told me it was only friendship..and I beleived it..BUT and the big BUT is he could not live with it..could not rebuild anything with me..he could not touch me..he could barely to talk to me.He could not put on a false game anymore..and took the chance to confess it..not knowing how I would react, but he needed to do it for himself.
It seems easy to tell you that it does not really matter what kind of A it was, but I would have to say that is wrong to assume that about everyone...now knowing, I can see I would ahve needed to know, before I could really begin the healing for us...and he is willing to tell me anything about it..so use your gut..your faith to help you find the peace you need.
