When I told W I was taking up a drawing course, she scolded me: "I told you you had talent, and now it takes this (BD) for you to do anything about it." -Ouch.
I've heard similar. I've also heard the its too late, it's not going to make a difference.
More recently its 'why now after this many years are you.....'
Fact is some of my changes probably were to impress W to begin with but now I feel they are for me, as I am really enjoying some of the things I am doing.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.